Mental Wellbeing

Rejections: Mastering the Art of Rejection And Build Resilience.

Author:
Malik Shaffy Lizinde, Expert Entrepreneur
Date:
The Art of Ideating – Newsletter

Rejection. An inevitable part of life, it is particularly so for those who dare to step into the world of growth or even entrepreneurship. From clients declining proposals to ideas needing to meet the enthusiasm they deserve or even being rejected by your own people, can often feel like a daunting roadblock. However, as I learned through my own journey, it’s possible to transform rejection from a roadblock into a stepping stone.

In my life, I faced more rejections than I could count. Each ‘no’ felt like a critique of my vision, creativity, personal belief, and even me. Each failed business venture felt like a nail in the coffin of my dreams. However, with time and much soul-searching, I learned that these rejections did not measure my worth or potential. Instead, they were opportunities for learning and growth.

One of the most challenging aspects of my journey was that it was often not there when I reached out for support. The people I thought would be my cheerleaders sometimes rejected my ideas or me as a person. I was rejected for not being one of them, for being misunderstood, and for being me.  This was a tough pill to swallow, but it forced me to develop a thick skin and become my own biggest supporter.

Dealing with rejection, particularly from those close to us, can be a gut-wrenching experience. However, over time, I learned great ways to cope:

Separate the Rejection from Your Self-Worth: Remember, rejecting your idea or business is not a rejection of you as a person. You are not your work. This distinction can help prevent rejection from affecting your self-esteem.

Use Rejection as a Learning Opportunity: Instead of seeing rejection as a dead-end, view it as feedback. Analyze what didn’t work and use this knowledge to refine your ways of doing, improve your skills, and return stronger.

Practice Resilience: Like a boxer in a ring, you must get back up each time you get knocked down. Resilience is the key to transforming rejection into success. This is a trait I saw exemplified by being Rwandan and learning from our own transformation. We Rwandans chose to see their challenge not as a setback but as an opportunity for growth.

Build a Trusted Support Group: Surround yourself with positive influences and people who believe in you no matter what. They can provide the encouragement you need when you face rejection.

Don’t stop: Persistence is crucial in the face of rejection. Remember that ‘no’ often means ‘not yet.’ Keep refining your craft, and stay true to your vision.

My journey as an entrepreneur of, even my personal life, for I have grown up till today, has been filled with rejection, but every ‘no’ and every failed venture has been a stepping stone towards growth and eventual success.

Mastering the art of rejection is about transformation and resilience. It’s about shifting our perspective to see every ‘no’ as a ‘not yet,’ every setback as a setup for a comeback. It’s about embracing the lessons that rejection brings and using them as fuel to drive our growth.

Rejection is not a dead end; it’s a return on the path to success. And remember, you are not alone in your journey. We are all navigating the path of rejection, resilience, and eventual triumph.


Innovation Challenge

Do you have an innovative idea that addresses a social challenge? Apply for funding and business development support from the Social Shifters Global Innovation Challenge before 20 August 2023

Do you have an innovative idea that addresses a social challenge? Apply for funding and business development support from the Social Shifters Global Innovation Challenge before 20 August 2023

The Social Shifters Global Innovation Challenge, a global competition that aims to empower young social innovators, invites applications for its 2023 edition. The Challenge is designed to provide young social innovators with the resources and support they need to develop and implement their ideas.

Participants will have access to a world-leading Digital Incubator program, which includes e-learning, live events, peer support, and the opportunity to access expert mentors from the world’s leading companies. The Challenge also offers a cash prize of up to $10,000 for the best ideas.

Winners will be selected by a panel of judges who will be looking for ideas that are innovative, scalable, and have the potential to make a real impact on the world. Interested participants must meet the following eligibility criteria to apply:

  • Be aged 18-30 years old
  • Be from anywhere in the world
  • Have an idea for a social innovation project
  • Be able to commit to the entire duration of the Challenge (August 2023 – February 2024)

To apply, visit: Application


Changemakers Innovation Challenge

Do you have a tech solution that creates social change in your community? Apply for funding from ACT Foundation’s Changemaker Innovation Challenge before 31 July 2023

Do you have a tech solution that creates social change in your community? Apply for funding from ACT Foundation’s Changemaker Innovation Challenge before 31 July 2023

The Aspire Coronation Trust (ACT) Foundation invites applicants to the Changemakers Innovation Challenge, which recognizes and rewards innovative social impact projects that use technology. The Challenge is open to African organizations (non-profits, businesses, and social enterprises) working to address a social or environmental challenge.

Winners of the Challenge will receive the following benefits:

  • A cash prize of $10,000 to support their project.
  • Access to a network of mentors and experts who can help them to develop and grow their projects.
  • Exposure to potential funders and partners.

Interested participants must meet the following criteria to apply:

  • Be a registered non-profit, business, or social enterprise in Africa.
  • Be using technology to create social change in their communities.
  • Have a project that is already in operation or ready to be implemented.

To apply, visit: Changemakers Innovation Challenge Application

 

The Aspire Coronation Trust (ACT) Foundation invites applicants to the Changemakers Innovation Challenge, which recognizes and rewards innovative social impact projects that use technology. The Challenge is open to African organizations (non-profits, businesses, and social enterprises) working to address a social or environmental challenge.

Winners of the Challenge will receive the following benefits:

  • A cash prize of $10,000 to support their project.
  • Access to a network of mentors and experts who can help them to develop and grow their projects.
  • Exposure to potential funders and partners.

Interested participants must meet the following criteria to apply:

  • Be a registered non-profit, business, or social enterprise in Africa.
  • Be using technology to create social change in their communities.
  • Have a project that is already in operation or ready to be implemented.

To apply, visit: Changemakers Innovation Challenge Application

 


AWS Global Fintech Accelerator

Are you an early-stage startup using Amazon Web Services  (AWS ) with an innovative financial solution? Apply for the Global Fintech Accelerator program before 14 August 2023.

AWS Global Fintech Accelerator

Are you an early-stage startup using Amazon Web Services  (AWS ) with an innovative financial solution? Apply for the Global Fintech Accelerator program before 14 August 2023.

 

Amazon Web Services (AWS), a subsidiary of Amazon that provides on-demand cloud computing platforms, invites applicants for the Global Fintech Accelerator program. The 6-week equity-free program helps early-stage startups use AWS to accelerate their businesses growth and success. The program is designed to provide startups with the resources, mentorship and support they need to build and launch innovative financial solutions. The program provides startups access to the following:

  • Technical mentorship from AWS experts on cloud computing, machine learning, and artificial intelligence topics.
  • Business mentorship from experienced entrepreneurs and investors in business strategy, fundraising, and go-to-market plans.
  • AWS resources including global infrastructure and services, as well as a variety of tools and resources to help build and launch products.

Successful applicants will benefit from the following:

  • Increased visibility and exposure: The program allows startups to showcase their products and services to a global audience of investors, partners, and customers.
  • Accelerated growth: The program helps startups to accelerate their growth by providing them with the resources, mentorship, and support they need to build and launch successful products.
  • Increased funding opportunities: The program can help startups to increase their chances of securing funding from investors.

Interested participants must meet the following criteria to apply:

  • Be early-stage fintech startups that are using AWS to build their businesses.
  • Have a product or service that is in the development or early-stage launch phase.
  • Be located in one of the following regions: North America, Europe, Middle East, Africa, or Latin America.

To apply for the program, visit: Applications


Google for Startups Accelerator

Are you a startup tackling climate change with technology? Apply for the Google for Startups Accelerator: Climate Change program before 7 July 2023

Are you a startup tackling climate change with technology? Apply for the Google for Startups Accelerator: Climate Change program before 7 July 2023

Google for Startups, a program launched by Google in 2011 to provide hands-on business development for aspiring entrepreneurs, invites applicants for the Google for Startups Accelerator: Climate Change program. The 10-week, equity-free program aims to support startups in the seed and series A financing phase tackling climate change with technology to positively impact the environment.

Successful applicants will receive the following benefits and opportunities:

  • Access to Google’s resources, including mentorship, technical support, and marketing and sales expertise.
  • Collaboration with other startups and organizations working on climate change
  • Participation in events and workshops led by Google experts
  • Pitching to investors and potential partners
  • Featuring on Google’s website and in its marketing materials

Interested applicants must meet the following criteria:

  • Be based in North America, Europe, or the Middle East and Africa.
  • Be in the Seed to Series A stage of funding.
  • Have a product or service that addresses climate change.
  • Have a team of at least 5 people.
  • Be available to participate in all aspects of the program.

To apply, visit: Application


Africa Youth

Are you an entrepreneur with an innovative solution that addresses a development challenge? Apply for the Africa Youth SDG Innovation Award before 11 June 2023.

Are you an entrepreneur with an innovative solution that addresses a development challenge? Apply for the Africa Youth SDG Innovation Award before 11 June 2023.

The United Nations Economic Commission for Africa (UNECA), through its Subregional office for Southern Africa (SRO-SA), in partnership with the African Youth SDG Summit and AfriLabs, invites applicants for the Africa Youth SDG Innovation Award. The Award is a competition that aims to recognize and reward outstanding young entrepreneurial efforts with innovations that resolve a specific development problem for firms, governments, households and communities and with an impact on the achievement of the UN Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs).

Interested participants must filfil the following to apply:

  • Be a citizen of an African country
  • Be between the ages of 18 and 35
  • Have developed an innovative solution that addresses a development challenge
  • Be able to demonstrate the impact of their innovation

Award winners will receive the following benefits:

  • A cash prize of $10,000
  • An opportunity to present their innovation at the Africa Youth SDG Summit
  • Access to mentorship and support from experts
  • An opportunity to participate in training and development programs

To apply, visit: Africa Youth SDG Innovation Award


i3 Program

Are you an e-health start-up interested in funding? Apply for the Investing in Africa i3 Program before 26 June 2023

Are you an e-health start-up interested in funding? Apply for the Investing in Africa i3 Program before 22 May 2023

Investing in Innovation (i3), a pan-African initiative invites e-health start-ups to the Investing in Africa i3 Program. i3 aims to accelerate the development and scale-up of innovative solutions that improve the availability, accessibility, affordability, quality and visibility of health products at scale in Africa. The Program seeks to advance access for start-ups traditionally excluded from funding and support, including women-led companies and founders in Francophone Africa.

Successful applicants will benefit from the following:

  • Grant of USD 50,000 to support commercialization and impact
  • Access to leading donors, industry and institutional players who will facilitate introductions to customers
  • Tailored investment readiness support delivered by leading innovation experts
  • Opportunities to participate in i3’s flagship event, the i3 Marketplace, which connects innovators with potential partners and investors

Interested participants must meet the following criteria to apply:

  • Be based in Africa
  • Be developing a solution that addresses a health product distribution challenge in Africa
  • Be at the early- or growth-stage
  • Have a strong team with the experience and expertise to execute on their business plan

To apply for the Program, visit: i3 Applications


Startup

Are you an entrepreneur needing mentorship, training, and investor access? Apply for the Next Generation Africa Think Glocal Roadtrip before 31 May 2023.

Startup

Are you an entrepreneur needing mentorship, training, and investor access? Apply for the Next Generation Africa Think Glocal Roadtrip before 31 May 2023.

Startup Africa Roadtrip, a non-profit initiative launched by BeEntrepreneurs APS to support and drive cutting-edge social innovation in developing countries, invites applicants for the Next Generation Africa Think Glocal Roadtrip.

The program aims to identify startup founders, innovators, and young talent intending to develop products and services with a high potential impact on the UN Sustainable Development Goals. Selected startups will participate in a free week of training and co-planning at Norrsken House Kigali in August 2023, with a chance to win a fully funded trip to Italy in spring 2024.

Participants travelling to Italy will present their business ideas to Italian professionals, universities, and investment funds. Trip participants will be supported to build strong relationships with local and Italian stakeholders for a win-win business approach and create a collaborative, multicultural, and innovative ecosystem without barriers and borders.

To apply for the program, visit Applications


Accelerator

Are you a start-up that wants to grow your new venture? Apply for the 22 On Sloane Accelerator - The Catalytic Programme

Are you a start-up that wants to grow your new venture? Apply for the 22 On Sloane Accelerator – The Catalytic Programme

22 On Sloane, an African Startup Campus, invites applicants for the 22 On Sloane Accelerator -“The Catalytic Programme, designed for start-ups in the pre-seed and seed stages. The Programme focuses on supporting high-impact digital start-ups to launch, commercialise and scale.

Interested applicants should have innovative ideas in tech fields, including education, commerce, financial services, gaming health or building tech-enabled products or services in Africa.

Participants in the Programme will receive the following benefits

  • USD 200,000 worth of capacity-building support
  • Free residency at the 22 On Sloane campus in Johannesburg
  • Access to an investor network with a combined value of over USD 500 million
  • Access to USD 10,000 cash seed investment

To apply for the Programme, visit: Applications


Ubucuruzi bwimibereho myiza

Are you thinking of starting a social enterprise? Learn from Amina Umuhoza, a social entrepreneur making an impact on young women in Rwanda.

Ubucuruzi bwimibereho myiza

As social entrepreneurship continues to grow globally, Rwanda has witnessed many innovative social entrepreneurs offer solutions to the most pressing challenges faced in society. The SME Response Clinic spoke with Amina Umuhoza, Founder of the social enterprise Dukataze, which aims to equip young people with information on reproductive health and economic empowerment.

Through her work, Amina also started Saye Company Limited, a for-profit enterprise that sells products made by beneficiaries of her organisation. We spoke to Amina, who shared some insights about what it takes to run a successful social enterprise. Here are the highlights:

Passion: Being a successful social entrepreneur depends on several things, but passion is one of the most important. As a young woman, she saw her peers suffering from a lack of guidance and knowledge about their reproductive health. Knowing their must be a way to support them, she began to engage in activities that would help her build her enterprise, such as participating in business development training programs for skills development and networking with like-minded entrepreneurs. Passion for her cause is what is behind everything Amina does.

Skills development: For entrepreneurs to succeed, they need certain skills to grow their business, including things like communication, financial management and strategic thinking. Social entrepreneurs need to build their knowledge and experience in an even broader set of skills – leadership, empathy, emotional and social intelligence, creativity and innovation, and grit. When Amina started the business, she applied for business development programs for social entrepreneurs to help learn what she would need in order to grow. Through programs such as the Tony Elumelu Entrepreneurship program, Amina acquired skills in areas like leadership, which helped her to assemble  and lead a diverse and skilled team in her enterprise.

Networking: According to Amina, she was only able to learn about different financing and business development opportunities from her physical and online networks. As a social entrepreneur, building a solid network with people working in the same or related industries is crucial. It helps entrepreneurs discover new opportunities, find quality leads, and increase business visibility. Networking can be done in two ways: attending physical events or engaging online with fellow industry players in the social entrepreneurship.

For the full interview with Amina Umuhoza, check the next slide.

Full Interview

Question: Tell us a bit about yourself and your social enterprise.

My name is Amina Umuhoza, and I’m the Founder of SAYE Company Limited/DUKATAZE.

We conduct a number of activities, but the most prominent ones include producing and sharing creative tools such as games and booklets with content about fighting teenage pregnancies and support for adolescents in talking about their reproductive health.

We do it in a fun and engaging way, which helps the adolescents we work with feel free and comfortable. In addition, we’ve got Kigali Menstruation Station located in Nyamirambo, which is a forum where young girls and boys learn about reproductive health without feeling embarrassed. The Station also offers a teen mom incubation program and other services. Understanding that not everyone can travel to the Station, we also offer training to those who are far from the Station. To do this, we work closely with local partners to carry out community outreach programs in districts outside of Kigali and in schools where we have clubs like “Let’s talk about us” (LTAU). So far we have trained 5010 adolescents on sexual reproductive health and also we are currently conducting a training of trainers for 200 students to become peer educators.

One might wonder, how do we manage to do all this? We have a shop that features home decoration items in Nyarugenge City Market called Home Decor, where we produce locally made products. We also have partnerships with international organisations that help us to implement some of our programs such as juno&me from Germany and My Period is Awesome from Uganda.

Question: Where did you get the idea and the initial investment to start the company?

When I was growing up, I realized that teenage pregnancies were common and that more can be done to prevent unintended pregnancies by talking about reproductive health. My idea was to tackle this challenge but in a way that could be sustainable financially and not dependent upon grants or donors.

Where did I get the capital? Initially, I used to write poems and I won different awards. Then, I saved the money I got from those poems and used it for transport to go to different meetings related to my social enterprise.

Later on, I participated in YouthConnekt Awards and was awarded RWF 500,000 as one of the top 30 entrepreneurs. This was my real starting capital.

Question: How did you develop your enterprise over time?

Building a business requires different skills. I started the business when I was 21 years old, with no sufficient skills at the time. But, thanks to different training and incubation programs I participated in, I really learned a lot. I managed to the get the skills I needed and later realized that I needed a skilled team to work with. In addition to those skills, it was important to have passion as well, and I have always felt very passionate about this work.

Question: What challenges did you face launching this enterprise?

The first challenge I faced was the fear of starting something new that nobody else in our family nor my close friends had ever tried. I sought peer mentors to advise me and also joined training programs to learn how to run such an enterprise.

Also, I had no capital, and that was the second challenge. The only thing I had was the talent of reciting poems from which I could get RWF 20,000 or RWF 30,000, which I would use for ticket fees when I was going to seek different partners or use it for internet to learn about different programs by people in the same domain.

Question: What are your plans for the year 2023?

I consider this year 2023 as a year for expansion. We started in 2017, so the enterprise has been running for almost six years. It has been like raising a child, and now that child has grown up, learning to walk by themselves. For 2023, we would like to build partnerships that can help us extend our services to more places (other districts), building on our working proof of concept to serve more adolescents. We have reached eight districts so far, and this year, we would like to reach five more.

Question: What advice would you give to other social entrepreneurs?

I would advise other young social entrepreneurs or those with their ideas in the incubation process to keep up. They are doing the right thing. They may sometimes wonder if they are doing the right thing, but I’m telling them the truth, they are unique.

Whenever you identify a problem in society, and you find a solution to that problem and manage to generate income, there is no greater joy.

Stay the course and try to find role models or mentors from whom you can freely seek advice in difficult situations.

Also, look around for different opportunities, especially through social media used by entrepreneurs in the same industry. That will help grow their enterprise.